The answer is very simple. We are all insecure.
If you’re a shy guy, you probably know exactly what I’m talking about. You might also be reading this article and thinking to yourself, “I sure don’t think so…”
Most guys who are naturally shy tend to have a very strong insecurity about themselves. If they are not seen as alpha males, the only place that they feel safe is in their own minds.
This doesn’t mean that it’s a good news. It’s a bad news situation for guys like that. I am here to tell you that the problem can be solved.
Dating advice for guys
The common mistake that most guys make is that they expect someone to give them what they want. It is important to understand that women don’t like it when you come on too strong. They don’t like it when you try to make them feel guilty.
They are far more interested in making sure that you enjoy yourself than you are in helping you meet other women. If you are not willing to spend time building attraction and self confidence with women, you are doomed to fail at dating.
So if you really want to get a woman and get her to fall in love with you, you need to become a true alpha male. A woman wants to be with a man who makes her feel like he could take care of himself, and not one who is asking her to do so.
Women love to feel like they are in control of their lives. We want to know that we will never have to ask our man to pick us up. We want him to set the pace of the relationship.
Becoming a true alpha male requires that you learn how to make yourself unattractive to women. You can’t show off your body or try to get attention through flirting.
Instead, you need to learn how to make girls become attracted to you in subtle ways. You want to become a guy who is unassuming and even confident in situations where he should be cocky. You want to be one of those guys who you never think twice about.
This is the real alpha male, and when you learn how to do this, you will find that it becomes easier than you ever thought possible. Your confidence will soar, and all of your problems will melt away.
You don’t have to go to expensive dating agencies, or spend hours studying your favorite picks. Become the alpha male in your mind and you will find that it is easy to get a girl to love you.